Saturday, November 20, 2010
In Our Story This Week - Still Not Over Our 5 Days 4 Nights Caribbean Vacation
Oh well oh well ,I have been asked why I have not been updating my blog and I must apologise. There is a good reason though ,I have been focusing on all my Allvoices writings and must say I have become somewhat addicted. I have also been collaborating with my sweet delicious man relating to some projects we will be launching later on this year to early next year.
I have also been busy with my friends kids who are staying by me and who I adore so much, while she heals from a recent separation. My son just started University and everything is feeling wonderful and I am thankful.
Now with all of that going on, honey still said he was committed to our vacation.
I have also been busy with my friends kids who are staying by me and who I adore so much, while she heals from a recent separation. My son just started University and everything is feeling wonderful and I am thankful.
Now with all of that going on, honey still said he was committed to our vacation.
Sunday, September 26, 2010
In Our Story This Week - I Am Sorry To Have Disturbed You From Your Dream
Well girlfriends,I have been so tardy in updating the blog as I have a new addiction ie writing on Allvoices,I am doing well too. Perhaps you can too.. It is totally uncensored and it pays (lol).
So much has been going on,Honey & I celebrated our anniversary and we are still passionately in love with each other. We both agree loving each other is so easy. So much to say.
So much has been going on,Honey & I celebrated our anniversary and we are still passionately in love with each other. We both agree loving each other is so easy. So much to say.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
In Our Story This Week - He Celebrated My Son Getting A Scholarship
Hi girlfriends ! How are you,I hope your week was as good as mine in spite any challenges we may have had. We must remain in thanksgiving for the minutest of things so our blessings including a man who is definitely a keeper may remain or come into our lives.This was just what happened last week.
We always need to look beyond the romance and the superficials and take notice if a man is really into us,being into us means celebrating with me my joys and feeling my pains with me.
We always need to look beyond the romance and the superficials and take notice if a man is really into us,being into us means celebrating with me my joys and feeling my pains with me.
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
This Week In Our Story -" Of Course Darling That Is Easy Becasue We Communicate So Well"
Girlfriends ,how are you? I have been so naughty,I have not posted in over two weeks.Not that I do not have anything to post but I have been having company and honey & I have been having fun. Yes we have been,celebrated my birthday etc.,Everyday he gets sweeter and sweeter and we get closer and closer. His kisses are still so delicious not to mention the wild thing and sleeping beside him inexpressible (if there is such a word) anyway I was out getting my nails done and he called me at home then my cell phone. I could not reach my phone in my oversize bag and my nails were still not dry. .
Sunday, July 25, 2010
In Our Story This Week -He's Home Tomorrow Can't Wait
Hi friends,hope you had a terrific week and just sucking up summer. August is almost here so we know what that means,yep preparing for fall then we know,the other season we love to hate.
Well ,this week went by so quickly ,perhaps because I have been busy writing and my girlfriend is by me for a few weeks so there is a lot of chat time. My baby, my man ,my sweet delicious man is back home tomorrow,cant wait to see him
Well ,this week went by so quickly ,perhaps because I have been busy writing and my girlfriend is by me for a few weeks so there is a lot of chat time. My baby, my man ,my sweet delicious man is back home tomorrow,cant wait to see him
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Sunday, July 18, 2010
In Our Story This Week - He Called From The Airport To Remind Me To Book My Holidays For Our Tropical Vacation
Where do I begin well how about hi my wonderful friends,hope you are having a fabulous Sunday. I just finished writing an article on Allvoices saying Tiger Woods should return to using his pecker as it seems he needs it be effective with his putter (lol)Well I watched Golf this afternoon and was happy for the South African well Ernie Els was his mentor so what do you expect. Today I am missing him. He is away at a - so yesterday I got all dolled up so we could spend the evening together before him leaving today
Sunday, July 11, 2010
In Our Story This Week - It Is Very Important To Me That You Love It
Hi everyone,This past week has been so hectic with visitors and the world cup,plus me writing on Allvoices(having fun with that). I now have a sinus headache as I guess it is so hot the air conditioning is running non stop and I sleep in it.
Did not exercise for a few days and eating non stop eeek! Anyway Spain won today and I am happy at least one of the teams I picked,won!
Well "my man "is away this week ,can't wait for him to be back. So last weekend I was with him and he had been renovating the study and downstairs.
Did not exercise for a few days and eating non stop eeek! Anyway Spain won today and I am happy at least one of the teams I picked,won!
Well "my man "is away this week ,can't wait for him to be back. So last weekend I was with him and he had been renovating the study and downstairs.
Monday, July 5, 2010
Sunday, July 4, 2010
This Week In Our Story - Step Out Into Your Brilliance Today Mr. "My Man"
Hi everyone,
This has been a very hectic week,with some of my teams being knocked out of the World Cup well at least Germany which my son picked is still there. Well Nadal won Wimbledon and darling Serena her fourth Wimbledon Title - Girl power to Serena! Well it's the long weekend,Independence North and South of the border.Canada/USA celebration weekend and everyone is barbecuing and having visitors, Me included. I have company and also helped my daughter with my gran daughter's birthday party today. Lots of fun but I am a bit tired.So today I will just share an email I sent him ,the first working day for him in the New Year. We need to do that sometimes. It was there when he opened his computer especially as I knew the million dollar problems he would be confronting and how he would be meeting the challenges.he truly appreciated this and told me in person that it added to our intimacy.
This has been a very hectic week,with some of my teams being knocked out of the World Cup well at least Germany which my son picked is still there. Well Nadal won Wimbledon and darling Serena her fourth Wimbledon Title - Girl power to Serena! Well it's the long weekend,Independence North and South of the border.Canada/USA celebration weekend and everyone is barbecuing and having visitors, Me included. I have company and also helped my daughter with my gran daughter's birthday party today. Lots of fun but I am a bit tired.So today I will just share an email I sent him ,the first working day for him in the New Year. We need to do that sometimes. It was there when he opened his computer especially as I knew the million dollar problems he would be confronting and how he would be meeting the challenges.he truly appreciated this and told me in person that it added to our intimacy.
Sunday, June 27, 2010
This Week In Our Story - He Said "You Caught My Attention & You Have Managed To Sustain My Attention
Hi friends are you still hot from world cup fever? Oh yes I hate this round though when some of your favourite teams have to face each other and get eliminated. Like the Ghana /USA game, too bad for US and today Britain lost to Germany.Anyway my son pickd Germany to win it all so we will see.
Anyway back to my favourite topic talking about my favourite man in the whole world. We both have been very busy and I love my independence ,I am not a clinger and neither is he. So he called and missed me. He then called back in the evening but I had the Life Insurance people over taking my blood and urine re my policy. So I could not talk. Told him I would call him in two minutes.He said okay,said he was sitting in our park ahhh! that is the park close to his home where we walk to to play and chat like kids.
Anyway back to my favourite topic talking about my favourite man in the whole world. We both have been very busy and I love my independence ,I am not a clinger and neither is he. So he called and missed me. He then called back in the evening but I had the Life Insurance people over taking my blood and urine re my policy. So I could not talk. Told him I would call him in two minutes.He said okay,said he was sitting in our park ahhh! that is the park close to his home where we walk to to play and chat like kids.
Sunday, June 20, 2010
In Our Story This Week - He Said "My Week Was Not Good I Did Not Hear From You"
Well, well, well!!! hello again it's soccer fever and it is good I love these summers with lots of sports. My teams are hanging in there and I am happy.My Celtics lost but kudos to Phil Jackson as the Lakers Coach,way to go Phil !!!your zen methods of coaching are paying off big time.Well great golf today is the US Open final day and I am loving it.
So I have to tell you this "My Man "was supposed to be out of town out of the country for a week and we had said goodbye good luck for the trip etc. Usually when he is away we email each other well I would email everyday and he would enjoy that as he said they helped him relax after busy days of
So I have to tell you this "My Man "was supposed to be out of town out of the country for a week and we had said goodbye good luck for the trip etc. Usually when he is away we email each other well I would email everyday and he would enjoy that as he said they helped him relax after busy days of
Friday, June 18, 2010
Monday, June 14, 2010
In Our Story This Week - Oh Crap He's Matched All The Traits I Want Based On My List Of Twenty Years
World Cup Soccer fever yeeeeeeeeeeh !!!!!won't say who I am routing for -have too many teams will wait until it reaches the quarter finals.Anyway hope you all had a nice weekend.
Well what do you know, I am now reevaluating me and my growth as a fantastic,loveable, loveable and loved woman and I feel great. We, I believe always attract who we are. Yes that's right!! I have proven it. I wrote a list more than twenty years ago about the things I love about me, want to nurture and grow and the same about the man I would love based on heart and head. The things I could tolerate and those I would not etc.
What is great - I have always proven that if you do not like someone who say for example smokes and you choose him ,guess what? subconsciously you will reject that person and guess what it shows up in different ways like arguments,sarcasm etc which will certainly kill your relationship one way or the other.
Anyway read some of the books on the blog for advice on relationships. I am just saying that when I checked my list this time -bingo!! it was like I had won the lottery. My Man as I call him had a checkmark for each of everything I wanted in a partner so yeeeeeeeeeh this is how I know.
After (won't say how many tries)all this time I now feel confident and comfortable and peaceful with my choice and you know what he feels it too . He said to me a few months ago "Honey where have you been all my life"? I responded back to him "you too darling where have you been? "
Yes we will know just make your list and follow it, when you arrive at the destination you will know -it feels easy,peaceful and right and you feel loving,loveable and loved.
Take care, Luv ya ,See ya
Well what do you know, I am now reevaluating me and my growth as a fantastic,loveable, loveable and loved woman and I feel great. We, I believe always attract who we are. Yes that's right!! I have proven it. I wrote a list more than twenty years ago about the things I love about me, want to nurture and grow and the same about the man I would love based on heart and head. The things I could tolerate and those I would not etc.
What is great - I have always proven that if you do not like someone who say for example smokes and you choose him ,guess what? subconsciously you will reject that person and guess what it shows up in different ways like arguments,sarcasm etc which will certainly kill your relationship one way or the other.
Anyway read some of the books on the blog for advice on relationships. I am just saying that when I checked my list this time -bingo!! it was like I had won the lottery. My Man as I call him had a checkmark for each of everything I wanted in a partner so yeeeeeeeeeh this is how I know.
After (won't say how many tries)all this time I now feel confident and comfortable and peaceful with my choice and you know what he feels it too . He said to me a few months ago "Honey where have you been all my life"? I responded back to him "you too darling where have you been? "
Yes we will know just make your list and follow it, when you arrive at the destination you will know -it feels easy,peaceful and right and you feel loving,loveable and loved.
Take care, Luv ya ,See ya
Sunday, June 6, 2010
In Our Story This Week - How Is Your Day Off Going -Let's Have Lunch
Are we enjoying the weather or if you are a sports fanatic like me ,Stanley Cup finals,NBA finals or the French Opens,this is so great!! By the way if you love sports it is another great way to connect with your man - great conversation and connection.
So I thought I should share today how romantic my sweet man is( by the way-In our section on Advice to the Lovelorn this week -you will see tips from Greg Michaels on how you know if your man is romantic or not) Yes about two months after we started seeing each other I had a few days off which I had had booked for personal things I needed to deal with. I just had one free day and he coincidentally would not be travelling. He called me because he remembered and left a message saying that he was wondering how my day off was going as he would like for us to have lunch.I felt so good hearing that as I was planning on just staying home that day.I returned his call and we planned to meet at 1.00 downtown as he would be on a teleconference to 12.30 pm. I said fine. He had asked me to call him when I got in town. So I arrived in town after spending the morning getting my nails and hair done and making sure that my outfit was fabulous and appropriate for a fall day. I wore heels and a cream trench coat and it seemed to turn a few heads too (lol)
I called him and I heard a little hesitation in his voice so I said hon is everything alright and he became so apologetic ,he started to say oh his teleconference was not yet done so he would be running late etc etc and he did not think he would be done in under an hour. I said that that was okay,being the woman I am I said okay I would do some shopping and when he was done he could call me and we would take it from there. He was so happy I understood. So we said goodbye and I went to browse and found a few things I could use for xmas on sale so something positive came out of that.
So I went to the little girls room - you girls know where that is (lol)I checked my make up etc and decided to continue shopping but then I thought I heard my cell phone. After I found it in my deep bag (by the way I think these bags are cute but not for women like me who can never find anything in her purse no matter how organised I think I am.) I looked at the phone and realised he had called. He said I should call him as he had finished earlier than he thought he would. I returned the call and he said since we were behind schedule we would meet at his place which was more central and then we would take it from there.
I got to his place before him so I went across the coffee shop to have a coffee. He then called me to say he was home. I told him I would finish my coffee and be there. I got to the door and we played one of our games.He came to the door and said "we are not buying anything today" and then I said "well this woman just wants the handsome man to open the door and kiss her all over." We played for another minute or so then he opened the door and hugged me and kissed me and told me how lovely I looked.
He then said darling I will be your chef today and make you a meal you won't forget.I thought it was so much sexier and more romantic than us going out which we usually did.I told him too as I was so touched and so surprised. He always lovingly surprises me. So he began and was so cute pretending to be a short order cook ,he set the table, he made me a four course meal with the main course being braised wild alaskan salmon with wild rice mmmhhh!!!!!yum yum.Dessert was pineapple and sugar coated strawberries drenched with grand marnier liquor oh to die for .
This felt really good, great background music ,great humor and conversation and him taking the rest of the afternoon off for us to be together priceless. How special was that!!!!!.
By the way I have never cooked him a meal -maybe soon (lol)
Have fun girls I am.
Luv Ya ,See Ya
So I thought I should share today how romantic my sweet man is( by the way-In our section on Advice to the Lovelorn this week -you will see tips from Greg Michaels on how you know if your man is romantic or not) Yes about two months after we started seeing each other I had a few days off which I had had booked for personal things I needed to deal with. I just had one free day and he coincidentally would not be travelling. He called me because he remembered and left a message saying that he was wondering how my day off was going as he would like for us to have lunch.I felt so good hearing that as I was planning on just staying home that day.I returned his call and we planned to meet at 1.00 downtown as he would be on a teleconference to 12.30 pm. I said fine. He had asked me to call him when I got in town. So I arrived in town after spending the morning getting my nails and hair done and making sure that my outfit was fabulous and appropriate for a fall day. I wore heels and a cream trench coat and it seemed to turn a few heads too (lol)
I called him and I heard a little hesitation in his voice so I said hon is everything alright and he became so apologetic ,he started to say oh his teleconference was not yet done so he would be running late etc etc and he did not think he would be done in under an hour. I said that that was okay,being the woman I am I said okay I would do some shopping and when he was done he could call me and we would take it from there. He was so happy I understood. So we said goodbye and I went to browse and found a few things I could use for xmas on sale so something positive came out of that.
So I went to the little girls room - you girls know where that is (lol)I checked my make up etc and decided to continue shopping but then I thought I heard my cell phone. After I found it in my deep bag (by the way I think these bags are cute but not for women like me who can never find anything in her purse no matter how organised I think I am.) I looked at the phone and realised he had called. He said I should call him as he had finished earlier than he thought he would. I returned the call and he said since we were behind schedule we would meet at his place which was more central and then we would take it from there.
I got to his place before him so I went across the coffee shop to have a coffee. He then called me to say he was home. I told him I would finish my coffee and be there. I got to the door and we played one of our games.He came to the door and said "we are not buying anything today" and then I said "well this woman just wants the handsome man to open the door and kiss her all over." We played for another minute or so then he opened the door and hugged me and kissed me and told me how lovely I looked.
He then said darling I will be your chef today and make you a meal you won't forget.I thought it was so much sexier and more romantic than us going out which we usually did.I told him too as I was so touched and so surprised. He always lovingly surprises me. So he began and was so cute pretending to be a short order cook ,he set the table, he made me a four course meal with the main course being braised wild alaskan salmon with wild rice mmmhhh!!!!!yum yum.Dessert was pineapple and sugar coated strawberries drenched with grand marnier liquor oh to die for .
This felt really good, great background music ,great humor and conversation and him taking the rest of the afternoon off for us to be together priceless. How special was that!!!!!.
By the way I have never cooked him a meal -maybe soon (lol)
Have fun girls I am.
Luv Ya ,See Ya
Sunday, May 30, 2010
In Our Story This Week - Can't Wait To Meet You In Person
How are you doing girlfriends or as Wendy Williams would say"How ya doing?"(remember her expression and voice (lol)
Darned I feel lazy today.It is so darned hot although we are glad to be dressed without jackets and boots it is still darned hot.Keep the AC on.Well "My Man" is in----- today will be returning tonight.Just heard from him.I just love our love so sweet and gentle.We just said to each other "luv ya, be safe see you soon" So I go ahead and work on me I do not sit and pine over him I knew from day one I would at this point in time be in a relationship which involved much travelling on his part.As I said before it is our love.We have not missed the holidays nor any other since we met so his priorities and mine are in sync.
Anyway today I will just share an email I was reading over that I sent him the day before our first hot date and also his response after we met.
This is it:
"Hi
I sent this note to you - thro" ---------- but I am not sure you will see it so I am sending it here!
How is my favourite person? Hope today was great for you with your brother. I was just thinking about us talking and I am looking forward to meeting you as I cannot wait to see you I think it will be great . They may need the fire truck to get rid of the fire from this when we meet connection .
I hope to hear from you and let's get together as planned,I do not care what time I just want to touch you (shake your hands) lol!.
I really hope we will meet tomorrow so we can get the getting to know you part behind us. I am pretty sure we will click as a matter of fact I think we will be so connected that your lips which look so very inviting for a long good - let's do this again (lol)kiss will surely be (I mean to look at and verify)
Will talk to you tomorrow,I guess I told you to call me anytime as you are in my "special people who can call me anytime" book.
Have fun!
Allison"
His response after we met and had had two telephone coversations subsequent to this email.
"Allison;
We met and I am definitely feeling it for you!It's been ten hours and I am still mentally all over you.I plan to spend lots of time with you when I return.
Hugs and tight squeezes
(Name)"
I still get goose bumps when I read it ,as after nine months of dating he says he still feels the same way and so do I.
Write your love notes ladies,say what you feel and act out of love and confidence in your self.The person who is right for you will meet you where you are,keep believing and if you have already found him keep spicing it up and trusting you more.
Have a great week.
Luv Ya See Ya
Darned I feel lazy today.It is so darned hot although we are glad to be dressed without jackets and boots it is still darned hot.Keep the AC on.Well "My Man" is in----- today will be returning tonight.Just heard from him.I just love our love so sweet and gentle.We just said to each other "luv ya, be safe see you soon" So I go ahead and work on me I do not sit and pine over him I knew from day one I would at this point in time be in a relationship which involved much travelling on his part.As I said before it is our love.We have not missed the holidays nor any other since we met so his priorities and mine are in sync.
Anyway today I will just share an email I was reading over that I sent him the day before our first hot date and also his response after we met.
This is it:
"Hi
I sent this note to you - thro" ---------- but I am not sure you will see it so I am sending it here!
How is my favourite person? Hope today was great for you with your brother. I was just thinking about us talking and I am looking forward to meeting you as I cannot wait to see you I think it will be great . They may need the fire truck to get rid of the fire from this when we meet connection .
I hope to hear from you and let's get together as planned,I do not care what time I just want to touch you (shake your hands) lol!.
I really hope we will meet tomorrow so we can get the getting to know you part behind us. I am pretty sure we will click as a matter of fact I think we will be so connected that your lips which look so very inviting for a long good - let's do this again (lol)kiss will surely be (I mean to look at and verify)
Will talk to you tomorrow,I guess I told you to call me anytime as you are in my "special people who can call me anytime" book.
Have fun!
Allison"
His response after we met and had had two telephone coversations subsequent to this email.
"Allison;
We met and I am definitely feeling it for you!It's been ten hours and I am still mentally all over you.I plan to spend lots of time with you when I return.
Hugs and tight squeezes
(Name)"
I still get goose bumps when I read it ,as after nine months of dating he says he still feels the same way and so do I.
Write your love notes ladies,say what you feel and act out of love and confidence in your self.The person who is right for you will meet you where you are,keep believing and if you have already found him keep spicing it up and trusting you more.
Have a great week.
Luv Ya See Ya
Monday, May 24, 2010
Sunday, May 23, 2010
In Our Story This Week - He Said "Darling You Take Precedence "
This is a long weekend and for those who have it - enjoy.Yep this morning I went for a long walk and I was just as usual being grateful for all that I am ,loving caring,a great mom,friend,healthy etc etc and also being grateful for my friends and family and my job and the beautiful neighbourhood in which I live .But of course you know who I am very grateful for yep that's right "My Man" yes my sweet man. I am because he matches everything on the list I had made many years and more than one divorce after (yep he got all checkmarks and my list is very long. (lol)
Anyway another thing that makes him special is this which I remembered We were supposed to be getting together for the weekend sometime ago and he decided he would come to pick me up instead of me making my way there. So anyway that day he had a meeting and then he had to go help his mom with something and he would get me at about six. At about 5.30 or so he called to say he was running late and if I minded if I met him at his house instead of him picking me up. I was so looking forward to him coming to get me as we try to save as much time re commuting. So his times to drive for more than an hour to come get me meant a lot to me.Anyway I know what his schedule is and I also understand what running late is as I am the queen of late.He will tell you that I am usually always never on time -good or bad I don't know,he understands me though.
I guessed he sensed disappointment in my voice when I said "ohhh I was looking forward to having you pick me up but if you can't then I will compromise" he then said "darling I know what it means to you so you know what I will pick you up even if I am very late because you take precedence" Oh my God I thought that that was so sweet and special.I told him how special that made me feel.He said thanks and had that hot sexy half smile on his face which made me want to just ravish him mmmmmmmmhhhh! So he came I looked extra special for him and smelt extra specially good of course we had a super duper weekend.
I just love him, he is so delicious -My sweet man.
Girlfriends it is not always the "I love you or things being said to please you alone that show how a man feels about you,it is the action behind what he says and the way the action makes you feel.
So if you feel great then let him know !
Hope you will all have a delicious love filled week.
Luv Ya! See ya!
Anyway another thing that makes him special is this which I remembered We were supposed to be getting together for the weekend sometime ago and he decided he would come to pick me up instead of me making my way there. So anyway that day he had a meeting and then he had to go help his mom with something and he would get me at about six. At about 5.30 or so he called to say he was running late and if I minded if I met him at his house instead of him picking me up. I was so looking forward to him coming to get me as we try to save as much time re commuting. So his times to drive for more than an hour to come get me meant a lot to me.Anyway I know what his schedule is and I also understand what running late is as I am the queen of late.He will tell you that I am usually always never on time -good or bad I don't know,he understands me though.
I guessed he sensed disappointment in my voice when I said "ohhh I was looking forward to having you pick me up but if you can't then I will compromise" he then said "darling I know what it means to you so you know what I will pick you up even if I am very late because you take precedence" Oh my God I thought that that was so sweet and special.I told him how special that made me feel.He said thanks and had that hot sexy half smile on his face which made me want to just ravish him mmmmmmmmhhhh! So he came I looked extra special for him and smelt extra specially good of course we had a super duper weekend.
I just love him, he is so delicious -My sweet man.
Girlfriends it is not always the "I love you or things being said to please you alone that show how a man feels about you,it is the action behind what he says and the way the action makes you feel.
So if you feel great then let him know !
Hope you will all have a delicious love filled week.
Luv Ya! See ya!
Tuesday, May 18, 2010
Sunday, May 16, 2010
In Our Story This Week - My First Contact By E-Mail oooh Butterflies Maybe?
OHHHHHHH still listening to Bryan Adam's Please Forgive Me -What a sexy loving song you can't be in love or want to be in love and not listen and feel this song. If you can't feel it then you are not yet loving , just kidding (lol).
Okay so I believe communication is a definite relationship builder in any shape or form,I have proven that how you write,verbalise or use body language can go a long way in keeping ,enhancing or breaking up a relationship so girls practise! practise! practise! sure works for me.
So as you will recall we met on line and he wanted to hear from me and because he lives in another city as well as the fact that I love to write it was easy for me to email him.
This email below is my first to him which he loved.
We especially me like to send emails as he travels so often and also he said hearing from me every morning sure motivates him and helps with stress release.(ahhhh he is so delicious)
I will be sharing a few over the weeks so here goes my first to him.
Try this you may like it if you meet someone.It works!! trust me!!!!
"Hi
Thxs for responding,yep I am not easily impressed but your introduction reaked of so much confidence it was hard to resist not taking a second look.
I am just trying this on line thing as I hear it does work with some care in making great choices. I am old fashioned so I prefer the telephone I think we make better impressions one way or the other by verbal communication. How do you feel about that?
You appear to be someone with whom I could become great friends which to me is a key ingredient in love relationships. I submitted such a long winded profile that I cannot imagine having more to tell you about me. Anyway there is a lot more - I think however I need to hear more from you as your profile was much shorter than mine. I would like to know for example which big ten school you attended ,I have a feeling it was -------.What drew you to --- and do you live in ------- or suburbs.
I live in ------ but work in -------. I think we should talk by phone since you are in -------. If you are okay with that I will give you my number so we could hear each other. I have a great feeling about your laughter. By the way what is your birth sign?(This means something) and have you done the compatibility test yet it will be fun and very insightful.
Okay when I hear from you we will see if our next contact is by phone.
Will talk to you later!"
His response -"Call me!999-444-1234 let's share a hug. I want to feel your vibe."
Still give me goose pimples and a what a man so sweet so sexy "My Man"
Okay girlfriends next time I will probably talk about cutsy names for each other or our first difference of opinion and how we agreed to intelligently disagree.
Luv Ya!
Okay so I believe communication is a definite relationship builder in any shape or form,I have proven that how you write,verbalise or use body language can go a long way in keeping ,enhancing or breaking up a relationship so girls practise! practise! practise! sure works for me.
So as you will recall we met on line and he wanted to hear from me and because he lives in another city as well as the fact that I love to write it was easy for me to email him.
This email below is my first to him which he loved.
We especially me like to send emails as he travels so often and also he said hearing from me every morning sure motivates him and helps with stress release.(ahhhh he is so delicious)
I will be sharing a few over the weeks so here goes my first to him.
Try this you may like it if you meet someone.It works!! trust me!!!!
"Hi
Thxs for responding,yep I am not easily impressed but your introduction reaked of so much confidence it was hard to resist not taking a second look.
I am just trying this on line thing as I hear it does work with some care in making great choices. I am old fashioned so I prefer the telephone I think we make better impressions one way or the other by verbal communication. How do you feel about that?
You appear to be someone with whom I could become great friends which to me is a key ingredient in love relationships. I submitted such a long winded profile that I cannot imagine having more to tell you about me. Anyway there is a lot more - I think however I need to hear more from you as your profile was much shorter than mine. I would like to know for example which big ten school you attended ,I have a feeling it was -------.What drew you to --- and do you live in ------- or suburbs.
I live in ------ but work in -------. I think we should talk by phone since you are in -------. If you are okay with that I will give you my number so we could hear each other. I have a great feeling about your laughter. By the way what is your birth sign?(This means something) and have you done the compatibility test yet it will be fun and very insightful.
Okay when I hear from you we will see if our next contact is by phone.
Will talk to you later!"
His response -"Call me!999-444-1234 let's share a hug. I want to feel your vibe."
Still give me goose pimples and a what a man so sweet so sexy "My Man"
Okay girlfriends next time I will probably talk about cutsy names for each other or our first difference of opinion and how we agreed to intelligently disagree.
Luv Ya!
Sunday, May 9, 2010
In Our Story This Week - What A Feeling To Lie Next To This Man
Okay lovelies, I said I would tell you how sweet it is and how beautiful it is to sleep with this man .
To continue from our last post when I spoke of the emotional connection I had with "My Man' when we had our first real non flirty or getting swept off your feet conversation I wil now continue to where that led.
He told me I would be spending alot of time with him and I would be sleeping over alot. Pretty practical, we live in different cities. So the first night I slept over I was not prepared as we were going to a night of festivities in his city and then dinner then I would go home. We ended up being later than anticipated and we were too tired to think of me going home. So he gave me the option which I lovingly and gladly accepted.
I did not have any teddy or anything but my bra and panties. I had my make up though (ha ha) He offered me his night shirt which I thought was so cool and sweet.He gave me a tooth brush and towels as well.
So we went upstairs to bed. He put on some real sweet blues and we chatted for a bit. He and I were there tapping out the rhythm on each others bodies. The music was really pulsating and was being played on a real good player and really pierced our bodies and our souls. The music became sultry and delicious as a prelude to our connecting on a very deep sexual and soulful level. He was very tender ,I remembered all my love affirmations in my mind I had learned from Barbara DeAngelos' books which said I am loving ,loveable and loved and that lying next to me was my lover,friend and partner who felt the same way too through kissing,hugging,touching and finally making physical love.
Well we were there it was taking place,the passion,the sweetness ,I remember thinking "oh my God,I cannot believe this passion and intense attraction we were feeling.' I could feel it was strongly mutual the stuff he said,the stuff I said, our touch,how we looked deep into each others eyes,how we kissed each other. Yes he was a man of experience I could tell he had that gift of knowing how to really make love in every sense of the word. His words and my words to him flowed and the music led us through this intense passionate time.
Just remembering it now is to relive it and build excitement for tomorrow when I will see my darling man.
It was magnetic, it was sweet,it was spiritual,it was out of this world. I have been there done that and I know this has got to be the best .We both wondered where the other was all our lives. We concluded that life sometimes takes many turns to "grow us up" to make us mellow and to feel unconditionally.
Yes to feel, so we kissed and fell asleep. Yes this is the perfect part for me ,I have been married more than once and slept with other men before but I have never experienced such sweet sleep with a man. This man oh my word!!!. He had me scooped into him,he kissed me ,he had his arm placed in the right places. He held me close. I felt so safe,so protected,so loved and so desired. During the night when we let go, he like me, wanted to know if the other was okay. We both said yes. So we slept apart and then I reached over to him and him to me,we snuggled again and then when I turned on my stomach he hugged my back . He placed his hand on my back with such a tender yet manly hold I felt like I was relaxing after a deep massage,it was so comforting and so settling I slept like a baby. Early in the morning we embraced and said I love you's ,hugged and dozed off again.
We slept until late in the next morning and had very sweet tender passionate can't get enough of you love making.
It was great,we had some bonus sleep,then we showered, he made us breakfast or brunch. We chatted and said how great we both felt. What a feeling. To make love wonderful,to sleep in his arms priceless.
Wow I am hot just thinking about it. Next time I will share a love letter I wrote to him. To "my man"
We still continue to sleep this way after such a long time and it seems to get better and better whether morning,noon or night time.
He says I snore, but know I don't ,he does,I will tape him!(lol)
Luv ya girlfriends,keep feeling and knowing that you attract who you are ,so keep filling up the love basket and your man to love a lot will come.
To continue from our last post when I spoke of the emotional connection I had with "My Man' when we had our first real non flirty or getting swept off your feet conversation I wil now continue to where that led.
He told me I would be spending alot of time with him and I would be sleeping over alot. Pretty practical, we live in different cities. So the first night I slept over I was not prepared as we were going to a night of festivities in his city and then dinner then I would go home. We ended up being later than anticipated and we were too tired to think of me going home. So he gave me the option which I lovingly and gladly accepted.
I did not have any teddy or anything but my bra and panties. I had my make up though (ha ha) He offered me his night shirt which I thought was so cool and sweet.He gave me a tooth brush and towels as well.
So we went upstairs to bed. He put on some real sweet blues and we chatted for a bit. He and I were there tapping out the rhythm on each others bodies. The music was really pulsating and was being played on a real good player and really pierced our bodies and our souls. The music became sultry and delicious as a prelude to our connecting on a very deep sexual and soulful level. He was very tender ,I remembered all my love affirmations in my mind I had learned from Barbara DeAngelos' books which said I am loving ,loveable and loved and that lying next to me was my lover,friend and partner who felt the same way too through kissing,hugging,touching and finally making physical love.
Well we were there it was taking place,the passion,the sweetness ,I remember thinking "oh my God,I cannot believe this passion and intense attraction we were feeling.' I could feel it was strongly mutual the stuff he said,the stuff I said, our touch,how we looked deep into each others eyes,how we kissed each other. Yes he was a man of experience I could tell he had that gift of knowing how to really make love in every sense of the word. His words and my words to him flowed and the music led us through this intense passionate time.
Just remembering it now is to relive it and build excitement for tomorrow when I will see my darling man.
It was magnetic, it was sweet,it was spiritual,it was out of this world. I have been there done that and I know this has got to be the best .We both wondered where the other was all our lives. We concluded that life sometimes takes many turns to "grow us up" to make us mellow and to feel unconditionally.
Yes to feel, so we kissed and fell asleep. Yes this is the perfect part for me ,I have been married more than once and slept with other men before but I have never experienced such sweet sleep with a man. This man oh my word!!!. He had me scooped into him,he kissed me ,he had his arm placed in the right places. He held me close. I felt so safe,so protected,so loved and so desired. During the night when we let go, he like me, wanted to know if the other was okay. We both said yes. So we slept apart and then I reached over to him and him to me,we snuggled again and then when I turned on my stomach he hugged my back . He placed his hand on my back with such a tender yet manly hold I felt like I was relaxing after a deep massage,it was so comforting and so settling I slept like a baby. Early in the morning we embraced and said I love you's ,hugged and dozed off again.
We slept until late in the next morning and had very sweet tender passionate can't get enough of you love making.
It was great,we had some bonus sleep,then we showered, he made us breakfast or brunch. We chatted and said how great we both felt. What a feeling. To make love wonderful,to sleep in his arms priceless.
Wow I am hot just thinking about it. Next time I will share a love letter I wrote to him. To "my man"
We still continue to sleep this way after such a long time and it seems to get better and better whether morning,noon or night time.
He says I snore, but know I don't ,he does,I will tape him!(lol)
Luv ya girlfriends,keep feeling and knowing that you attract who you are ,so keep filling up the love basket and your man to love a lot will come.
Sunday, April 25, 2010
In Our Story This Week -The Sweetness Of Our Emotional Connection
Well hello girlfriends hope you enjoyed the last post.Just rereading it and having a phenominal day as "My Man" and I had today really makes what I am about to say really profound.
Emotional connection some will say, yes of course we met and hit it off and that was yes a deep impact 'laughter,fun and easy verbal communication with a hell of a lot of very sexual and physical attraction but I am sure we all know that' that is not enough to attract and keep the man interested. One sure fire way of keeping connected even if you are miles apart is having an emotional connection. This emotional connection is connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating from the heart.
When this happens a special bond is formed. This happened on our second face to face date. My sweet man was gone for over two weeks and while he was gone he wrote to me to say he could not stop thinking about me and I responded like wise.
Emotional connection some will say, yes of course we met and hit it off and that was yes a deep impact 'laughter,fun and easy verbal communication with a hell of a lot of very sexual and physical attraction but I am sure we all know that' that is not enough to attract and keep the man interested. One sure fire way of keeping connected even if you are miles apart is having an emotional connection. This emotional connection is connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating from the heart.
When this happens a special bond is formed. This happened on our second face to face date. My sweet man was gone for over two weeks and while he was gone he wrote to me to say he could not stop thinking about me and I responded like wise.
Friday, April 9, 2010
In Our Story This Week - Our Hot Date
Continued from my last post I promised to write about my hot date with "My Man" I love calling him that as he is all I have ever wanted just loving and accepting him the way he is.
So he was going away on business and wanted to see me before he left it was that quickly we wanted to meet. I just knew in every part of me it would be the first date I have ever wanted. He said we should get together over the weekend as he would be travelling the Monday so I said fine as I was anxious to meet him too. He promised to call the Friday but he did not. When I did not hear from him I still felt okay as I knew the connection had been made from an emotional place,especially him not seeing a picture of me but based on our telephone conversations he was willing to meet with me. I just tested my maturity then and all I believe in positive thinking and kept visualising our date. I made sure on Friday night I did not eat too much as I did not want any bloating over the weekend and I tested out my outfits to see which would create an image of being womanly sexy and sophisticated all at one.
So he was going away on business and wanted to see me before he left it was that quickly we wanted to meet. I just knew in every part of me it would be the first date I have ever wanted. He said we should get together over the weekend as he would be travelling the Monday so I said fine as I was anxious to meet him too. He promised to call the Friday but he did not. When I did not hear from him I still felt okay as I knew the connection had been made from an emotional place,especially him not seeing a picture of me but based on our telephone conversations he was willing to meet with me. I just tested my maturity then and all I believe in positive thinking and kept visualising our date. I made sure on Friday night I did not eat too much as I did not want any bloating over the weekend and I tested out my outfits to see which would create an image of being womanly sexy and sophisticated all at one.
Saturday, March 6, 2010
In Our Story This Week - At Last He Came
When I was six years old I had a dream ,a dream of a man with a voice that even at such a young age sunk deep in my subconscious mind. He was a little older than me in this dream,I remember his hair,his skin color and his lips and his eyes which showed me his soul and the comfort of being loved. This man lived with me in my subconscious mind through the years and as an adult with every love interest,partner or husband I have had I kept looking because I felt the man I needed to meet was the man I met in my dreams at six years old. Strange we would say but it happened ,no wonder I tend to believe in reincarnation,serendipty and the power of the subconscious mind.
Each time I met someone these memories of this man would surface ,some had some parts and came close but I knew deep down it was not the man.Quietly and secretly it seemed I was on a mission to find this man I did not know how but I somehow knew deep down he was here somewhere and that I would meet him.
Each time I met someone these memories of this man would surface ,some had some parts and came close but I knew deep down it was not the man.Quietly and secretly it seemed I was on a mission to find this man I did not know how but I somehow knew deep down he was here somewhere and that I would meet him.
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