In Our Story This Week -The Sweetness Of Our Emotional Connection

Well hello girlfriends hope you enjoyed the last post.Just rereading it and having a phenominal day as "My Man" and I had today really makes what I am about to say really profound.
Emotional connection some will say, yes of course we met and hit it off and that was yes a deep impact 'laughter,fun and easy verbal communication with a hell of a lot of very sexual and physical attraction but I am sure we all know that' that is not enough to attract and keep the man interested. One sure fire way of keeping connected even if you are miles apart is having an emotional connection. This emotional connection is connecting to another person beyond just the physical level by sharing feelings and relating from the heart.
When this happens a special bond is formed. This happened on our second face to face date. My sweet man was gone for over two weeks and while he was gone he wrote to me to say he could not stop thinking about me and I responded like wise.

He then emailed me to say he had to cut his trip short to go to a certain city (I won't say) where his son and daughter in law lived because of a family emergency so I figured something not too good had happened. I embraced the information lovingly and meditated on "divine order knowing that whatever was happening it would turn out okay. So while he was there he hinted at what was happening so I wished him and the family all the best. He called to say he would be home on the weekend and I would be seeing him.Yes I had mixed emotions as I realised that what was happening was very delicate. Delicate because I had to or we both had to reconcile our personal emotional feelings in this new relationship we were creating as well as having to deal with a pretty much life changing family situation. So the interplay of joy and sorrow were very much in play.

So he picked me up at the train station, it was a strong and tenderhearted greeting.We said we were happy to see each other and he put some Stevie Wonder music on. It was really relaxing. On our way from the station we broke the rules again and went to his place. Yeep I did I took the chance but in my heart I knew it would be okay. A lovely place it is so masculine and rich in art and family pictures. Pictures which tell a million great stories and bring such warmth. He was and is still the consummate gentleman complementing me on how I looked and I did the same to him .I also expressed how I felt about the "feeling" and the ambiance of his place.
We went to the study which again showed me a great deal of who he is.
So he sat at his desk ,me watching his every move and he was of me too- (we talked about it after with his roar of a laugh and my girly giggles.)
Anyway I sat in the chase we call it the creative /ideas chair ( he does a lot of writing and speaking engagements)We call it that too as we brainstorm as well as express our feelings "our straight up talk" from that chair -yes we have had a few healthy ones with a lot of love as cover.Pretty good -part of the connection.
So back to the night. He hinted a little at what had happened and I empathised ,expressed sympathies and a consolation and a belief that everything would work together for the ultimate good. Ohhhhh he was so appreciative .He then said that he did not know if I were thinking that we would be doing the "wild thing that night" (not his phrase -mine )He said that was not the intention of the night but a getting to begin to learn more about each other.He also remarked that sometimes women when they meet men"perch themselves in positions of assuming that if they "bed" a man it would mean a committment.He also said many of his female friends sometimes became annoyed as he was not that type.He said he only invited people into his private space if he felt the connection or vibe it was the right thing to do. So there I was thinking, should I feel flattered or should I feel "who does he think he is. Well here comes"Ms Mature grace under uncertainty".I said wow! well thanks for inviting me and he smiled ,he said I do not know what it is but you are okay and he kissed me. There again I felt in my heart that he was the man I was waiting for all my life .
okay back to the connection - he then began to tell me stuff which are private and confidential and will remain so and in parts I empathised and others we laughed and in others became pensive but relating strongly and at ease. He was expressing so much, I felt he needed a hug so we hugged and I remember saying I was not there for the "wild thing either" he then kissed me and we kissed,he said he was happy to have shared and we had the deepest and most intimate hugging and kissing and crying and letting each other know it was okay, it was okay and everything was going to be alright with the family,with us and everything else. We had very long and tender soul touching caressing and kisses and looking deep into each others eyes. When we hugged it was like we needed to melt into one.
I also expressed some of my stuff enough to let him see where I was coming from and that all that I have learnt over the years and grown through and from during past relationships appeared to have created what I call a delicious cake that had all the ingredients which by themselves are sometimes yuccky but when put together and baked has a great taste that is now sweet.The "icing on the cake" as I call my man is the bonus.
So that was the emotional connection - we felt each other we were more than just lust, we felt connected through deep feelings and the way we saw those things. He said I had peeled away layers of his not expressing to anyone stuff he had to me and that just the way I was made it so darned easy, I felt that way too, no judgements just unconditional love and allowing the process to flow. It was a good' as a matter of fact a great night -I had never before began a relationship like how this was beginning. It felt good. So girlfriends let's start off by connecting emotionally ,create trust,empathy,understanding and humor qualities which make you unforgettable.
I know you are wondering if we did do the "wild thing "- take a wild guess -ain"t telling .Anyway next week I will tell you how good it is to lie in bed and sleep beside this man and darlings I will tell you what it feels like to be made love to by this man - "My Man - YEEEEEEHHHHHHH!

KEEP SWEET AND KEEP ON LOVING

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