In Our Story This Week - Our Hot Date

Continued from my last post I promised to write about my hot date with "My Man" I love calling him that as he is all I have ever wanted just loving and accepting him the way he is.
So he was going away on business and wanted to see me before he left it was that quickly we wanted to meet. I just knew in every part of me it would be the first date I have ever wanted. He said we should get together over the weekend as he would be travelling the Monday so I said fine as I was anxious to meet him too. He promised to call the Friday but he did not. When I did not hear from him I still felt okay as I knew the connection had been made from an emotional place,especially him not seeing a picture of me but based on our telephone conversations he was willing to meet with me. I just tested my maturity then and all I believe in positive thinking and kept visualising our date. I made sure on Friday night I did not eat too much as I did not want any bloating over the weekend and I tested out my outfits to see which would create an image of being womanly sexy and sophisticated all at one.

That being done I went to bed and dreamt of our date.
On Saturday morning he called apologising for not having called, I said good thing as I was busy too (we have pretty much the same sense of humor and understanding I new his Friday would have been hectic based on previous conversation so there was no insecure need to sweat the small stuff.
We agreed to meet but we both had some previously scheduled plans which we both had to fulfill.We agreed that we "would see" all we knew was that we would be meeting before he travelled on Monday morning. I went out with my friend and called him at at about 4.30 when my girlfriend and I had finished shopping and having lunch and he said he had called me at home (oopsies I had forgotten to give him my cell phone number)anyway he was still alittle busy especially with an unscheduled visit from his brother visiting from out of town so I told him not to worry so he asked if Sunday afternoon would be better so I said yes.
I slept Saturday with much joy knowing we would finally meet on Sunday.
He called Sunday morning and we chatted a bit,it was strange well not strange because when two people get together and know who they are and are confident in knowing what they want it always feel easy. So we decided on casual as we had only a couple hours to be together. He decided to come to see me and pick me up at my house.
Now I know you are thinking how could you let him come to your house when you did not even known him. Well I had done my research online and it was packed with information and everything checked out. He had a great reputation and too much to lose if he were not going to live up to a certain standard. Bottom line both our guts told us it was okay.
My daughter was a little surprised that I had thrown caution to the wind but I felt I would be safe. So we decided on the time ,I gave him directions and both said we anticipated the meeting. Well that was about 12 .40 pm ,he was coming at 2.00 pm but I decided to get ready as I wanted my make up to be flawless so I could meditate upon this meeting that divine perfect order was in the meeting and that it would go well and we both would be safe.
Well my daughter came by and said I look great and gave her recommendations re changing my pants which I did .Her recommendation was excellent.Loved her choice better than mine.
So I sat and waited,my son in law and my son and grand daughter all came in my bedroom and teased me to help me relax. Then the phone rang and i said hello,I heard his ever so sweet delicious sexy ,joyous voice on the other end he said while roaring with laughter "Allison I am in your driveway"I could not stop laughing.I am still laughing even now. My daughter looked through my bedroom window and said "oh mom you will be greatly pleased"
So I double checked my self in the mirror and grabbed my purse. As I walked outside I peeped in his car and saw him peeping out at me and he was smiling so I beckoned to him as I walked towards the car for him to come out of the car and he did. And oh my God we headed straight into each other's arms and we looked at each other he kissed my face a million times and me his his hugs and kisses were to die for I am now crying as I write this oh I had never felt felt like that with anyone else. he said oh you were worth the drive to I wont say where but to the city where I live.I said and you were worth the wait. My son in law came outside to meet him and asked him "so where are you two kids going now?" My Man laughed and introduced himself it was really great (My son in law was also trying to feel his vibe ) He liked him. We said we were not sure but he said he was starved so we decided to have lunch. We got in the car and we could not stop looking at each other -it was very magnetic we held hands and just laughed and just savoured our meeting, he thought I was all that he had anticipated and that he was "feeling me" since our phone coversations. I told him like wise. he loved how I smelt.
he was so full of humor and we were both totally relaxed I felt like I was 16 years going on our first date. It was fabulous.
We decided on ethnic food from my culture as he said he liked our foods so we found a restuaurant. We got there and the wait for the meal would have been too long so we decided to go to a local sports bar as we were casual.
When we got to the restuarant we held hands as we were going in and then we held each other around the waist and stopped and hugged,my darling man then said oh you are so look so good and just started to kiss me,I just melted in him arms and kissed him we kissed over and over so passionately we lost all our abandon. Yes we broke the rules but we felt like we had known each other forever. Before we got in the restaurant I had no lipstick on .If you knew me you would know that is taboo for me as I must not be seen in public without my lipstick but I did not care then I am still in disbelief how that happened.
Anyway since I met him I have broken so many of my rules (ha ha)
When we caught our breaths we went in and were seated, I thought he would have sat across from me but he choose seats where he could sit beside me. Before we even ordered our meals we were touching and pecking so I said as I predicted we would be so hot and it was true if they had called the fire truck it would have been appropriate (lol)
We ordered our meals and we were tasting each others meals. We hugged and talked and laughed. he said he loved my sense of humor and me his. We were playful. I even took the "cherry"garnish from my Pina Colada and gave it to him. So I said to him"You cannot say I did not give you my cherry" (In my ethnic background "cherry is your virginity ) he found that amazing. I gave him from my lips to his it was beautiful.
He said he was happy to meet me and we planned so many things in the short time.We felt so comfortable,he apologised for not having a lot of time to spend with me but I reassured him I understood and I still do becuause I know what his career entails and was aware that frequent travel was part of our love connection and that he had also wanted a mature woman which I proudly am.
I told him I was fine with our date being only two and a half hours as he had to go prepare for his trip.
We continued having fun and then he drove me home. When we got to my home he got out of the car and came around to hug me and to kiss me it was so thrilling. We said how much fun we had and that we would miss each other while he was away. He held my face and said he would call me from the airport before he boarded his flight and I said I would be waiting. We thanked each other for a lovely date which was worth the wait and kissed good bye.
I had to tell my daughter about our date she said "mom you seem very pleased" I said I was she remarked "mom I think he likes you alot I watched from your window how he reacted to you when you first met" Yes he still does look at me with caring sweet sincere loving eyes and I feel his love and affection each time he looks at me.
I decided to send him an e-card to say thanks,I found a very cute one which said"Thanks Beary beary much and was animated. I wrote in it how I felt.
I slept like a baby I was thankful that I had met this man.The next day -Monday I was on top of the world I told my closest buds but did not share too much as sometimes they say keep things quitely until they mature fully.
I saw my client and when I checked my voice mail after there was his message as promised. Saying he wished me a great week,how much he could not wait to get get back to what would be waiting for him and that I should take care ,love etc, I still listen to his messages when I am at work 7 months later especially when I am stressed.
When I opened my email,there it was an email from him telling me it had been 10 hours and he was still mentally all over me I was so elated.He had sent the email on Sunday night after I had met him.
Oh what a Man he is truly amazing. Next week I will tell you about our becoming more emotionally connected.
If you have a terrific man let him know, if you dont -keep visualising he is there in the meantime - fall in love with you and the right man will be there .The more you love yourself the greater the love will be with your man as we attract who we are.
See ya luv ya