Sunday, June 2, 2013

Always the Bridesmaid & Not The Bride Change That Now

Hi my wonderful girlfriends,

Wonderful women what's happening in your neck of the woods? Hope you are being loving ,lovable and loved.
Tis the season for loving,engagement and marriage. I had so much fun today at my daughter's friend's bridal shower. The games were hilarious especially the "pass the penis hands free".OMG you should see women use their mouths, boobs and every other body part just to hold and caress the plastic penis being passed around for the grand prize of a      



gift card to J.Crew. Wow hilarious indeed and revealing.Anyway where girls are gathered the  "man" topic comes up. Of course some seem genuinely happy for the bride but many sat there wondering when the heck will it be their turn to be the bride to be. Some voiced that some showed it in their body language and by the quantity of Sangria and Cosmo being sipped like a sponge soaking up water.
 It made me wonder why the heck don't some ass men can't make up their minds to commit to the women they have who are are absolutely fantastic in every way. There are some who pick and pick until they end up picking s**t. You get my drift.

As a Life Coach I know all the sociological and psychological reasons which are easy to use to excuse these so called partners,lovers ,etc but women want to get engaged or married even some who out of fear of never being say they don't care.

You see men separate their love for us girls from commitment and so we have to make sure we understand that.We have to know and feel that there is truly a connection which will make him think,feel and know you are the one.

So how does that happen? as my mom would say all is fair in love and war and everything requires work. If you feel the man is worth having and that there is no abuse ,you love him and want him why not be patient and use your  "Delilah" as I call it,your feminine wiles,patience,love knowing they need your help and time to realise the great connection you both have and that you are the one.

As I told some of the women this evening,you can do this,I know you can and that is why I am again recommending that you read T Dub's book
"Girl gets Ring" which you can get on this site.T Dub is a guy who knows how guys think and he wants to help women realise their dreams. The book is awesome,when hon is being a little "off ,I jump right back into my T.Dubb book as a refresher. It's awesome and those that I know have used it are happy they did.

Watch the video here if you've never or watch it again it's worth it if you want him to commit.
Click here to watch the Girl Gets Ring video

So good luck sweet ones and here's to becoming the bride and not the bridesmaid or ex. Of course always remember you can only attract the relationship and commitment you want if you are operating out of love and not fear.

To love always

Talk to you soon.

Smooches.



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