Happy Monday Girlfriends
Hope your weekend was fun and that you enjoyed being you by making choices which were healthy emotionally,physically and spiritually.
On the weekend I went to a bridal shower and of course there were many single ladies with looks of oh God why couldn't it be my shower.Of course there usually aren't women gathered without man bashing by some. Darn it I had to jump into the discussion to share some wisdom which I have learnt over the years from my teachers as well as my own observations and life experience to change perception. This more often than not goes from male bashing and instead focus on honoring self which will lead to attracting the right relationship. If there is one thing that bothers me it is women who are always man bashing.I am not saying that everything is la la land with men
,some are full of crap and we know that,just as some women are.
This tells me and confirms what I always tell clients,look at self first before looking at the other.My mom would always say that when we are pointing fingers there is one always pointing back at you.
If women always bash men ,how the heck do they expect to be in a real wonderful relationship.We attract who we are.It therefore means if we are always critical then well find someone who is a mirror to help nudge us into wholeness if we understand that.
Some women also have their bucket list of what Mr.Right should be but is it realistic. A guy friend of mine once told me that he is not interested in any woman who sees him as their bank or who is only interested in his looks.
This says to us stop insisting on a bucket list which maybe unrealistic instead focus on how you want to feel when this man Mr.Right shows up in your life.This will be another topic.
After the shower I decided to share Seven Reasons why some women according to Relationship Coach Guru and Author of the SmartWomansGuide Greg Michael maybe missing out on their Soul mate or twin flame.
The excerpt was taken from his Passions Key Newsletter
7 Reasons Why You May Be Missing Out On Meeting Your Soul Mate
In today's Passion Keys Newsletter I want to write about something that is preventing a lot of women from finding their true love.
A lot of single women have this list of things that men must have in order to qualify to even get a first date. Sure men have this same list too, and there is nothing wrong with it if you don’t take it too far. Is your list of “must-haves” preventing you from giving your Mr. Right a chance? If you have this list of “must-haves”, then you need to read the remainder of this article.
Here is an example of the kind of list you might be carrying around mentally, and how that list may be preventing you from meeting your soul mate:
1.He must have a big bank account – If your man must have a big bank account in order to date you, do you realize that money cannot buy love? Sure he may be able to buy you a diamond ring, or even a car, but if he is not around to share good times with you because he is chasing the next big deal, then you have nothing.
2.He must have his MBA from an Ivy League university – I can tell you that the world is full of educated derelicts, fools, and men who have the brains but may not have the ability to love you the way you want to be loved.
3.He must have a job on Wall Street – There is nothing wrong in wanting to date a man that has the ability to provide for a family when the time comes to make babies, but if your relationship is only built on his ability to provide, what happens when he is downsized from his Wall Street job? Will you check out and look for the next guy with a big job?
4.He must be 6ft. 5ins. - Wow! Have you heard of big things coming in small packages? What is important in love and happiness is not how tall a man is, but rather how big his heart is. If he is built like an Adonis, but he does not know how to romance, and respect you, then what good is his height?
5.He must have long hair – I have news for you. The length of a man’s hair does not determine how much love he can give. Look beyond his hair and see what is in his heart. Bald guys know how to love too.
6.He must be a member of this group – No race, or ethnic group has a monopoly on love. You may be from a certain race and find love in a totally different race. Don’t let what people with ideas from the past deny you of living a happy life with your prince charming. Love has no color or creed.
7.He must come from the upper class – What it the difference between the love of a guy from downtown and the one from uptown. Take love wherever you can find it. As long as you are attracted to your potential soul mate and they have most of the things you look for in a man, then go for it, and don’t look back.
If the man you meet is honest, kind, trustworthy, respectful, gainfully employed, has their own place (an apartment of a home), and they love you with all their heart and soul, don’t wait around to get approval from your girlfriends. If you pass a guy over to wait for the prince of England to ride his horse all the way from London to meet you in New York, might be waiting for a long time – that is if he ever shows up exactly the way you pictured him. The lesson here is simple – Don’t judge a book by its cover.
That is all for now. I wish you and your loved ones, love, peace and happiness. Take care.
Warm Regards,
Greg Michaels
To find out how to make your man fall madly in love with you, go to: http://www.smartwomansguide.com
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